With a rare combination of realism and hope, this book offers practical suggestions for women who want to improve the quality of their relationships by helping the men in their lives become healthier and more fun to live with. Women who have great marriages, as well as those who struggle to experience the intimacy they desire, will find compassionate and sympathetic guidance to help them become people who can truly help their husbands grow. New brides and women who have been married for decades will be empowered to honestly evaluate their situations and make courageous decisions to implement nine tried-and-true secrets for relational success, including: